Long-distance uncertainty

[maheswari]

quote:I started dating Mr. Whippoorwill some twenty-some-odd years ago, and I'm still dating him today because he was the only guy who was perfectly content with me exactly as I was. Everyone else wanted me to change in some large or small way to fit their idea of how I should be. I didn't marry any of those guys.

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[Bodhi Tree]

quote:Originally posted by karl
Both made me miserable and anxious, but I realised that was really making me miserable was the inability to accept the fantasies however they manifested.

Superb. That is very helpful. You're the king of acceptance, Karl. You wear a jeweled crown made of acceptance diamonds. _/\\_ I bow to you, Karl, King of Acceptance.

quote:Originally posted by whippoorwill
I started dating Mr. Whippoorwill some twenty-some-odd years ago, and I'm still dating him today because he was the only guy who was perfectly content with me exactly as I was. Everyone else wanted me to change in some large or small way to fit their idea of how I should be. I didn't marry any of those guys.

Ahhh...exactly as you are. Refreshing. To thine ownself be true. That is the trick. One time, when I was a pitcher in little league baseball, I wasn't doing that well, so I decided to change my style in an effort to imitate a better pitcher. But it didn't help. So I went back to my natural style and just refined it. That's always stuck with me. Be yourself. Throw your throw. If it's meant to be, there will be a natural flow with not much effort. Thanks, whippoorwill.

An abudance of wisdom in these forums.

[SeySorciere]

BT - do not fret. I am still free. Totally gorgeous and sexy




Sey

[Bodhi Tree]

Yowsers! I like your style, Sey.  _/\\_  I bow to the shakti energy...to the divine feminine within.