Hello ventilator;
I’ll give you an answer from the way I see it.
There really isn’t anything that can be categorized simply as honesty or a lie. Everyone sees things differently. A child lies all the time because of mixing imagination with reality! Is that a reason to be hurt by a child?
Everything including lying and honesty is relative to someone or something. There’s always a reference. For example, when one is traveling u r not moving with respect to the passenger sitting next to you but u r moving with respect to a tree outside. Likewise for humans; a thief within a gang of murderers is RELATIVELY a good person but not so good within a group of liars... What I’m trying to say is that we all have human self tailored laws in what’s right and wrong.
Now who said honesty is always good? I’ll give a scenario, imagine yourself during war and your country is killing those who belong to different nationality, religion or race.There are plenty of stories like that in history, pick up one that touches your heart. Now imagine you are hiding one of those innocent people or children in your house and a soldier came knocking on your door and asked you if you have seen that child? Would you be honest and hand over the child? How does that feel to hand over an innocent child for murdering just to be HONEST??
Let’s elaborate the drama, you decide not to hand over the child and because of ur decision, the leader decides to kill all the children in town because of not finding that particular child! How you feel now? Because of protecting one soul, maybe million souls will be killed because of what you felt is right!
Isn’t that what happened when an army of foreign slaves led by Spartacus when they were defeated in battle and the roman emperor asked them to hand over their leader! To protect their leader, they all stood up and shout “I’m Spartacus” which lead in the end to all being executed including their leader!
So what is right? to lie or not to lie?
The only ABSOLUTE truth is God/the unknown. Everything else changes…and one can never say this is truth for anything that keeps changing…
Thank you for taking the time to read my long and boring thoughts which probably complicated things more than it gave any PROPER answer