hello,i think that we should allways avoid any kind of confrontation,confrontation means to enter in a disastrous play of action ,reaction,usually the ego is the one that plays the big role.to keep bad relations with people ,is an extra weight in our lives.yogis says that bad thoughts against someone,fly, and that the mind send telepathic agressive messages, when is hating someone or wishing bad to someone,and surely the victime will feel this hate sooner or later,with the consecuent defensive reaction.the power of thought is enormous and can be catched and felt, from very big distances.we should pay much attention to that, and try to understand or simply obligate ourselves to love anyone.what we project is what we receive,sure Jesus would have laughed about this,but Jesus was confronting the power at that time telling the truth and teachings.sure Jesus didnt get enlightened fighting,the enlightenment got it while performing satkarmas or fasting and meditating on the desert.to be enlightened people needs a special atmosphere,a quiet simple and peaceful life,and good vivrations.
