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Originally posted by Shanti
Sweet!
The other day I realized, in order to accept someone exactly as they are, don't see them as Krshna making them do what they are doing to show us something (Lila), accept them as Krishna himself. When we believe something in our life is brought about because the divine wants it that way, we surrender to the divine, when we see each actor and actress is the diivine themselves, then there is true acceptance of all as our brothers and sisters and us... surrender to all as the Divine.
We don't get mad at Krishna when when he does not bring about things in our life as we want it, but we do get mad a people when they don't give us what we want... when we see them as Krishna, then it all seems right.
Yes yes!
Ram Dass talks about a lady shaking her fist in road rage saying, "Lord, what a strange incarnation you have there!"[
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It's all about letting go of control, isn't it? We are so much like student drivers who forget that the instructor is really in control of the car.
One of the most beloved stories of the Bhagavatam is that of the churning of the ocean: Krishna agrees to "help" the devas when they approach him after being defeated by the asuras. He asks the two parties to churn the ocean for the nectar of immortality. The party that gets this could then permanently defeat the other. When the day comes, Krishna picks the ocean, gets the mountain ready, gets the great snake king Vasuki to agree to act as the rope, becomes the turtle that stabilizes the mountain, and "grows his arms" sitting atop the mountain, doing the actual churning on both sides. He then takes the form of everything that arises from the churning, including Dhanvantari bearing the nectar and Mohini, the bewitching damsel that tricks the asuras by distributing all of the nectar to the devas (except one asura, but that's another story). He brings about the war between them and has the devas win. He is of course, the essence of the devas, the asuras and everything else..
The whole time, the devas and asuras think they are the ones that did it all.
He is Brahman and the Lila,
all of the Lila - the actors, the plot, the outcome.. And even the actors thinking they are in control. All is Him.