"Scream Free Marriage" and "Scream Free Parenting". These are books by Hal Runken. I am very excited because I think they have filled a gap for me as to how to put Byron Katie's ideas into practise.
People always recommend Byron Katie around here, but I have had difficulty integrating it into my life. It sounded good but then when thinking about putting it into practise I could only come up with 2 options: suck it up, or walk away. I'm sure that is not what Byron Katie intended but that is how I internalised it.
I don't know if Runken is aware of Katie's work at all, but the way I read it, it is a perfect dumbed-down how-to on being responsible only for yourself, and advocating for yourself in order to preserve a relationship.
Has anyone else read these, and do you agree?