Hi Jono & All,
Jono - I think (pun fully intended
) that you'll find that as practices continue, and opening continues, that not only is there less sense of any tension between thinking and awareness-presence, but that natural balance becomes more and more effortless, until eventually, it all just flows.
If you feel more and more caught up in the dream state (thinking, time, ego-self, etc.) - just allow attention to rest in-as presence/awareness.
This is something we can always do; it may be challenging at times, but it's still always possible. The challenge isn't so much in opening-relaxing in awareness, as it is in the sense of thinking "pulling us back" into the dream.
Thinking isn't the dream;
attachment to thinking is the dream.
And if thinking is really intense, just put your attention - bring attention "back" to what's aware
of the intense thinking.
And if you have a sense of being pulled into thinking, say, while working on an essay, that's fine, too .... thinking/mind does have its uses.
The freedom and power of awareness, though, help thinking to have more power and flow.
For instance, on some level, there's thinking in writing this post, but in experience, it's just typing happening; there's just trust-awareness in the flowing, and therefore no stress, no strain, and no concern about what's said or how it's said.
An essay may or may not require more focus than this, but sense of stress creates the artificiality of the dream in such situations.
We posit a separate self that "must do it right" ... and that separate self simply need not be posited.
When we trust, and let our knowing inform the moment, as informed by awareness .... writing an essay does become much more like changing a tire (aka tyre
).
Openness is the key; if there's not a sense of openness, experiencing openness (presence, awareness) is the key to consciousness flowing freely. In constriction, we're literally damming ourselves ... creating a sense of barrier that isn't needed.
The sweet spot is in the doing, the living -- the allowing ourselves to be lived by this perfect awareness-intelligence we each and all ever actually are, now.
When we feel stressed, we're like a character in a story, dreaming we're being written (by memory, conditioning, evaluation, etc.)
In openness, we're relaxed in the reality of being the author, writing the story, involving the character.
The dream is feeling like part of the story.
Awakening is awakening to our reality as the author, the writing and the story.
Living unbound in human experience is the perfect sweet spot of the joy of writing, right now
... no separate author (or essayist
), no separate story (or essay) - just the perfect meeting of awareness-form in living, right now .... unhindered by any extraneous thinking.
Plenty of thinking may be happening .... but in flowing, it's not extraneous.
Like changing a tire/tyre ... wrenches are turned, tires are removed, new tires are put on ... and hands/mind/etc. just coordinate naturally. Because it's experienced as natural and known, there usually isn't a lot of extra evaluation.
Mental work can be, and becomes the same.
Mind is a sense, and not a self .... and much more like a hand turning a wrench than the dream-self can ever imagine.
Just let go.
Just let flow.
Enjoy the perfection now.
... and I would say "repeat" .... but there's no repeat; in reality, it's always ever new, and always ever living, now.
I hope this is useful.
Wholeheartedly,
Kirtanman