Thank you Jeff and kami,
and apologies for the fruitful delay in replying.
In the last week I have felt a loving desire to learn of saints and a curiousity of Christian Mysticism in general. At first I had little understanding of why, except the word 'bhakti' echoing from time to time at the back of my mind. Now I see that there is a certain humility to be found in such people, that has been lacking in myself. I had perhaps only started a few steps in this direction, to realise that I have taken the experience of God as if my own, and somehow I must come to an understanding that awareness and myself are profoundly separate before I can start to acknowledge that I am just a part of awareness, instead of awareness being a part of me.
It is a humbling experience, and certainly one of surrender as you describe.
I came full circle to the practise of Loving-Kindness meditation which I had been doing a lot of at the end of last year. When doing this with a not-so-favourable aquaintance the other day, I was wishing her to be at peace and at ease with herself, and saw her heart glowing and expanding to every corner of the Earth... at which point I 'knew' that we all lived in the same heart, that is the reality we share on a daily basis. It was more of an intellectual realisation, than emotional, though my heart has been profoundly more active than usual. Now I have wonderful moments of seeing everyone, including myself, manifesting as part of the same love.
Love to all