There is absolutely no way to love others like I love God until I realize my true nature to BE God. In seeing who I am, I also see that everyone is ALSO God in their true nature - One. In this realization does true love arise.
What is love, anyway? Not a sentiment, not an action, not a thought, not admiration, worship, adoration.. All of those are only pointers to what it is and in the ultimate sense, only concepts.
Love is seeing that you and I are ONE. Not that I love you, because that is merely one concept (of me) loving another concept (of you). But when I see directly, deeply, experientially that we are one (not a belief, or yet another concept but
direct knowing), all concepts dissolve. It is only love that can withstand torture and yet say, forgive them Father they do not know what they do. Because "they" truly didn't know. They
thought they were separate. And in separateness, there is no love. At least this knowledge of love.