Hi all,
A more serious question than the type I would like to post usually, and I really need some help:
I am trying to get through a trauma. The yoga practices, I have good reasons to believe, has helped a lot with that. But the way it helps is to make it more painful. Yes, I get a clearer picture of my true nature. And I improved on a lot of things. But the reality, especially the irrevesible faults I've made in the past, make me very painful. On normal days, I am just okay with reading yoga books, practising, and busying my life, my work. But inside me, I still feel puzzled. Where should I go next?
I learnt much more about life, both through the trauma and AYP. I get to know what I value most in my life. But so what? If I can return back to 3 years ago, everything would be fine. Now it's just regret and regret.
My mind is calling me for a new life. I feel meaningless if I continue on my life, my career; with little time spending on important things in life. The trend here in Hong Kong is: don't expect working fewer than 10 hours a day. Don't belief those figure in newspaper, they are for older generations. Now, on average my friends (or my age) work from 9am to 8pm. So, don't talk bout "spirituality". It's a luxury for Americans!
Well, not necessarily so. I can choose a freer job (and I will). But with all of my friends busying around, it means that I need to find some new friends (or make my current friends into one) who are more spiritual, who work on similar goals as me; and who could support me on my path. After all, I agree strongly with Yogani that spirituality is about going out and loving others; rather than staying alone and "just meditate".
Here in Hong Kong, Christianity dominants in the spiritual world. But a traditional Christian would not think you're with them unless you take their same belief system. Don't talk about meditation. That's what I encounter in Hong Kong. Yogis? Sorry, yoga means "asanas" here. Many people won't even take the time to rest at the end of the asana class--"busying" is more important.
The AYP forum here is nice. In fact this is usually the only place where I could find some support. No one will ask me to get Baptized here. But I still feel too distant from you guys. I think I need some face-to-face friends who could go along the path with me. The trauma is still painful and hard to get through. Any experiences/ideas about knowing (or even better, creating) some "real" non-sectarian groups/friends? Or, how could I feel less lonely if there's some other ways?
Thanks Yogani again, for bringing me into this path of tears and pain, a worthwhile one.
Alvin