Boy meets girl.
Boy has long-term relationship with girl.
Girl moves away for various reasons, for two years.
Girl is coming back next month.
Boy is beginning to crack through karma and glimpse the true consciousness.
Boy sees he has, through fear and spiritual ignorance of his own nature, created an 'ego', a facade, bringing to bear his 'acceptable' qualities and hiding his 'unacceptable qualities', thus presenting a shame and fear-based mask to girl based upon pain avoidance.
Boy becomes aware that behind this facade, lies unshakable peace, which is devoid of the ego.
Boy now sees his ego and girl in relationship, and feels threatened and overwhelmed by what might happen if he were to surrender his control and thinking mind into the depths, whilst in her presence.. Boy feels constrained by girl's limited ideas of him as a person, and yearns for deeper freedom.
Boy experiences panic, fear, and strong temptation to ignore spiritual truth and pull back into the secure story, the ego, and muddle on his life as he has.
Boy experiences terrifying knowledge that his life has been miserable all along and will continue to be unless he truly integrates spiritual experiences and values into his life. Boy intuits reincarnation, the ever onwards journey of the soul, and the potential for eternal suffering if he ignores spiritual truth..
Boy is at crossroads. Boy feels he needs to get rid of girl, as girl represents ego and constraint to his mind (is this a trick?) Boy does not see how he can relax into his deeper truth and be at all recognizable to girl. To put it violently, he feels guilty and judges himself a fraud.
Boy comes to online meditation forum and posts about himself in third-person for some bizarre unfathomable reason, hoping somebody can offer him some form of counsel or reassurance on how he can navigate the stormy waters of life, relationship and spirit...
Help him out, will you?