i didn't post until now, because i live in a different time region. it's now 11:53 a.m
thank you for your answers, i really cherish your help!
i really thought about suicide, but in a strange way. i would never have killed me, because it's nothing that fits to me. i don't run away from my own "problems". moreover i know how much i would hurt my family and friends. although i'm in a phase like this, i just want to help others, i listen carefully, try to understand them and help them to find solutions.
it is the biggest pleasure to me if someone looks at me with shining eyes after i helped him/her. considering suicide an option was more like contrariness. i was like that "i would never do it, but i have the right to think about it."
today everything seems much clearer to me than yesterday, when i wrote my post.
@NagoyaSea
i told my parents about purification and that it's the reason for my irritation. they said that i should do self-pacing.
@lucidinterval1
you are right. what you say about the crown is true - at the moment i do this exercise (hathor-ka) without the use of my pc-muscle, because i feel that there is too much energy released. it goes up the spine, into my head, which starts to pulsate and i feel pain in different regions. without the pc it is much smoother.
@anthem11
self-enquiry is one of the most important things i do. i think it helps very much. if you do it properly you are attached with your feelings, but you are also detached. it sounds like a paradox, but it isn'T. one the one hand you feel these feelings and you live with them, but on the other hand you know that it is purification and you can analyse them. it helps you todo your daily routines.
@scott
your words won't be my ruin, i promise. i want to free myself, not to destroy me. i listen to my inner guru, my intuition.
@Alvin Chan
thank you very much. i will read through that thread after lunch.
what you said about meditation (you shouldn't be too attached") seems very interesting. it's again a thing i have to learn. a few minutes ago i had a CLICK in my head and now i understand it deep in my inner. it's the kind of thing you can't express with words.
@littledragon
i forgot to add that i left NLP behind me. it was too manipulative. at first the idea to manipulate everyone was quite appealing, but the more i got in contact with spirituality the more it seemed not to be good for me. acceptance is an important note. acceptance of everything is true love from the heart chakra.
reading your posts made me feel much stronger and stable. i didn't tell you that i had phases in which i could concentrate on my heart an keep laughing for more than an hour. i felt totalley linked with everyone and everything. i enjoyed it very much. it was true divine love flowing through my heart. i also felt sexual energy flowing up from my coccyx. this love from my heart was blocked for a month. but today, just a few minutes ago, it came back. now i sit here, smiling, being completely content nad lovingly. i feel strong inside. it's like when you finfished something you worked a while for. my heart feels big an full of energy. i don't have to laugh, but i feel pure bliss. i could close my eyes and enioy the feeling forever. but i know that this feeling removes obstructions too. i'm so calm that nothing can irritate me today.
one thing i want to add: i never quit being kind and lovingly to others. my "struggle" is not the struggle of others.
i guess i forgot to wrote some things down, but as soon as i remember them, i will add them.
again i want to thank you all. i think i managed to overcome meditation addiction. it just made click in my head. it was another prison i built for myself. i think meditation has to become your life, but you can be attached but detached. it's hard to explain.
namasté, i love you