Hi Everyone!
There's something I've recently discovered about standing postures that I thought might be worth mentioning here.
I don't see any way around mentioning this, so I'll just be blunt… This is for women like me who have a rather gi-normous caboose.
Anyway, I'm also a side-sleeper and, over the years of sleeping on my side, the gluteus medius muscle has become severely overstretched and weak. When I'm on my side and the top knee is resting on the bed or the floor, two things happen: the spine is twisted and the gluteus medius muscle is stretched beyond the point where it can effectively operate, weakening the muscle to the point where it does not contract at all unless I specifically put my attention there. It turns out that this muscle is fairly fundamental to good standing posture. (This is probably obvious, but it was a discovery for me.)
So far, when doing postures like Mountain pose or Tree pose in Asanas class, I've only heard cues pertaining to the feet and ankles -- tiny muscles. Trying to balance myself in mountain or tree by putting attention on my feet and ankles is completely ineffective for me. The spine is still misaligned, the thighbones are still rotated in, the abdominals are not effectively engaged…. In short, it doesn't work for me to build these postures from the bottom up like I'm told to.
However, if I put my attention on the gluteus medius muscles and deliberately contract them, everything fixes itself. The abdominals automatically engage, the thighbones rotate out, the spine comes into alignment, the knees come into alignment, the ankles right themselves, the arches in the feet appear, and the contact points on the feet automatically engage.
I thought this was worth mentioning in case there are other women who, like me, find these postures difficult, or if there are any yoga instructors who have large-hipped women in their classes with trouble in these poses.
I'm doing two things to try to build the gluteus medius back to some strength: 1) I put a pillow between my knees when sleeping on my side to keep the spine aligned and to prevent this muscle from being overstretched, and 2) therapeutic exercises to increase strength.
Anyway… hope this helps…
Love!
--Liz