I have found a woman (or should I say, she found me...) who wants to make love for hours on end--we are to be married in 3 weeks--and, being in our mid-50's, and in no hurry to do anything but BE, we find it almost effortless to achieve the ecstatic state of continuous bliss which flows from the spiritual joining of our bodies, hearts and souls during our lovemaking. No technique, effort, thought or particular anything we do or want or desire happens--we simply flow, and continue flowing, as if one awareness is flowing through 2 bodies, as we do (or not-do) whatever it is we do or don't do--sorry for the double-talk, but it's as best as I can describe it. There is no intent or practice for any particular effect, this is just what we sort of naturally evolved together (although I'd had exposure to a lot of yoga and meditation practice, philosophy and learning), it just happens, and we go, we melt, we disappear into one another, and when we notice the world again, I am still hard inside of her, we've both orgasmed dozens of times, and it might be an hour or five or more, we never know what will happen. Maybe it has to do with just that--we don't know, nor do we care what might happen, we begin, we love, and we melt and flow. That, I have to assume, is where we are all trying to get to--for us, NOT trying anything was the key to the door to endless bliss...
Michael