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Originally posted by Shanti
Wow.. talk about short stories.. that is the shortest version of Ramayana I have ever read...
Well, you know how enlightened rishis tend to ramble on ... so I just tightened up the verbiage with my super-duper editing skills, and tossed out all the extraneous fluff .... and there ya have it.
(Actually, I believe .... no, really - it's true .... that this is the *first* time the term "short" has been used in reference to a piece of written material from *moi*.
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I like your interpretation and (I guess within the story) Jai Uttal's interpretation of the characters and the story.
Thank you kindly, ma'am -- but please note: the Hanuman = breath symbolism is my sole contribution --- everything else was purely cut-n-paste (and I don't know who wrote the "pre-Jai" part - presumably, whoever runs the Bhaktiware site where I obtained the story -- and I have no idea whatsoever who that may be.)
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So let me take it a step further..
Kirtanman.. growing up.. I never liked Ramayana.. I esp. did not like Ram.. (sorry if am hurting anyone's feelings over here).. I still don't like him.. and here is why...
You have given the end of the story that is most commonly considered the end.. Ram, Lakshman and Sita go back to Ayodhya and he becomes the rightful ruler of the throne again. And they all live happily ever after.. (Or do they???)
Actually - "I'm with ya" on this --- 100%.
When I first heard of the "complete ending", I was blown away (in a bad way, not a good way) -- and found the whole idea reprehensible - especially since it (the ending of the Ramayana, that you reference below) was being applied to one of the most sacred characters in all of Indian spiritual lore --- to me, accusing Lord Ram of such behavior was similar to ending one of the New Testament gospels with Jesus committing armed robbery, or kicking the stuffing out of a poor old woman!
And I'm being quite serious - Lord Ram isn't just any garden-variety avatar (full embodiment of God) - he specifically symbolizes (supposedly) all that is "desirably holy" - meaning: the very highest qualities of what it is to be divine: loving, obedient, detached, faithful, courageous, etc. etc.
And then, this living embodiment of the divine, turns to his beloved wife (who had left her life as a wealthy princess and almost-queen, and stood by her husband as he was exiled to fourteen years in the forest, and who had just endured all manner of psychological - and possibly other - torture, from a psychotic ten-headed demon) - and says:
"Y'know, the buzz around town is that you might actually be a worthless slut, because you could have kinda-sorta maybe possibly, in theory, hypothetically, gotten it on with ol' Ravana, and since we all know that the epitome of royal wisdom is to make life-altering decisions based on gossip and innuendo ---- please get out of my sight, and never return. Buh-bye."
It's like, WTF*?!
(*Fairly well known acronym standing for, "What could possibly be going on, here?)
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Ohhh.. never could get over this end.. Sita gives up her life to be with Ram.. and because some people cant keep their mouth shut.. Ram.. who is supposed to be a God.. tell his wife to get lost.. and then wants her back.. Ooooooooo... that gets me sooo mad..[!]
So how about a nice explanation to this part of the story with respect to AYP.. so I can get over this block!!!!![:p]
Per what I wrote above, that's a fairly tall order, there, ma'am - but I'll see what I can do .... (and I think I may be able to offer some help, here -- per some insight I've had just today as a result of your post ----- so, thanks!
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Sometimes I'm not entirely sure why I post a given item (yes, I know ... that makes many of us ....
) -- yet, then it turns into some deep and hopefully helpful dialog (This thread being a perfect example.) -- for which I am very grateful! (And I'm not patting myself on the back in any way at all ---- I'm just saying that I'm truly grateful for the synergy that helps us learn and grow together, here in the Forum -- and quite often, I don't even see it coming --- which is kinda cool, actually!)
So ... back to the topic at hand (Ram-bashing, I believe it was ...) <---- totally kidding, as everyone up to and including Lord Ram knows
... we've seen what happens to those who Ram-bash ..... (the instigator often ends up less than totally alive, and/or with their body in a different configuration than the one it started with .... because, nothing can stand up to the power of Truth .... which
does bring us back to our topic ....)
HOW can we say that Lord Ram represents Truth and Divinity, if he behaves like this?
How can we hold him up as the embodiment of pure divine Love, if he does something as reprehensibly unloving as to reject his wife, who was kidnapped and tortured, based on hearsay?
I mean - let's say this was a real-life situation (and many people believe it is) --- and let's say Sita and Ram are talking one night in bed, in their opulent palace in Ayodyha - and it comes out that Sita *did* engage in Maha-boinkage with Ravana - maybe even repeatedly, over time?
(And please understand: as much as some of my phrasing can be tongue-in-cheek, I truly mean no disrespect to the image of Sita, in any way -- I know that some people take offense easily when their sacred characters are referenced -- and Sita is often held up as kind of the Indian version of the Virgin Mary, status-wise.
So (everyone) please know -- if any people / images / characters could be considered sacred in my own life, it would be those illustrated in Indian sacred lore - Rama, Sita, Hanuman, Krishna, Shiva, etc.
I'm just engaging in a "what if" scenario (an analogous one might be the recent globally popular one from The Da Vinci Code - "What if Jesus was Married?" - and therefore had sex? Lotsa people got tweaky about that one, too .... but it was a valid intellectual exploration, I feel --- as is my example here. If anyone disagrees, that's fine - but please know that no disrespect is intended -- in fact, it is my very respectful intention that we can use these sacred individuals / characters / symbols to learn and grow together.)
Okay - disclaimer-thon all done.
Now .... Seriously - think about it -- I can personally think of at least several reasons she could have agreed to sexual relations with Ravana - everything from interpersonal pressure that was essentially rape, to psychological pressure applied over time, to fear for her physical life and safety, to deep psychological and emotional confusion that could arise in a long-term captor-captive relationship, such as hers with Ravana) -- where almost anyone would emphathize, and say, "We understand - you couldn't have done anything else!"
There are also a couple of pro-active reasons (and please, don't go all medieval on me .... once again: Educational Example here ....), where I can see that Sita could have even _seduced_ Ravana .... ranging from desire for better treatment (compared to whatever hellish things a ten-headed demon could concoct for a captive on an ongoing bases), to a plan for escape (get at least nine of the heads to believe that she's really in love with them, get them to let their guard down -- and Ms. Sita Ram makes it onto the 10:30am Air Hanuman flight to Ayodya, with connection in Bangalore.
)
POINT BEING:
Unless I'm WAY off in my presumption --- almost any husband / long-term male partner I can think of -- would completely empathize, understand, and say something along the lines of, "It's okay, Honey, I understand why you made that choice -- and it's going to take some time to heal from all this --- and I'm with you, always - in all ways."
And let's say some men reading this feel like "Well, sure, that's the loving thing to do -- but it wouldn't be that easy --- I'd picture her having sex with that ten-headed demons -- with five of the heads looking like George Clooney, three like Brad Pitt, at least one like Ben Affleck ...."
Which, my friends, is kind of the POINT: If we were to look at the most loving possible response --- wouldn't what I wrote above pretty much be it?
And who would be more likely to give such a response than the living avatar of God?
(And, for the record - I have never been in a similar situation, but I have been in situations where I could have judged my former female partners for sexual behavior -- and I didn't. I don't even remotely subscribe to the double-standard of "virtue" which has plagued our world for a long time now. We're all human - and it's pretty much that simple. I have had people very close to me, who have dealt with similar things, though (the woman was sexually assaulted, and her husband had to decide how he was going to respond -- which in the case I'm referencing, was a response of complete love and support -- which is certainly the response I would give, as well - and which I would hope most men would give.)
So, to kind of close this out --- and here's the part I hope will be helpful, per your request, Shweta:
Is it just possible, that despite the way Lord Ram's reaction to Sita's theoretical sexual interaction with Ravana makes most of us feel --- that the author(s) of the Ramayana were SO dedicated to communicating the ultra-important (to attainment of yoga / enlightenment) symbolism of the story ---- that they constructed the symbolism _as necessary_ to convey their points?
I don't even _remotely_ pretend to have a handle on all the symbolism of the Ramayana -- but here are a few other tidbits that I've read - or recently realized:
*Ravana lives on, and is king of, an ISLAND for a reason - the Ego lives under the illusion that it is _separate_ .... like an island.
*The barrier (in the story) between the kingdom of the Ego, and the One of Reality is .... Water (the ocean, in this case) ... which has always symbolized sexuality / emotions .... the two things (irony of ironies) --- that most people CAN'T GET PAST on their journey to enlightenment. They may be able to "overcome" much of the physical -- but not those two things.
*Ram symbolizes, among other things, the third chakra - the Solar plexus - the Sun - Fire. Sita / Lakshmi (aka The Earth Goddess) symbolizes the first chakra - Earth. Hanuman symbolizes the fourth chakra - the Heart - along with it's element - Air.
Mayyyyybe it is by means of the breath (everyone do their spinal breathing today?
), that the goddess (Lakshmi / Kundalini), is rescued from the "island fortress" of the demon ego, by the *power* of the Fire / Will (third chakra, Ram), using the Breath / Heart (Hanuman / Bhakti / Air) --- who (with his "army" --- the repeated power of breath) builds a BRIDGE, allowing the "island" to be conquered, and the goddess energy (kundalini) to be drawn across the bridge of the second chakra - and up into the third / fourth chakras (Ram / Hanuman), and even toward the fifth - Shiva / Ether (Shiva is embodied in Hanuman, after all ...).
And mayyyybe --- when the aspiring yogi / yogini goes .... "Ah, whew - that was *tough*, but her I am in my kingdom, and can relax in my complete and united energy .... mayyyyybe the voices throughout the kingdom start to whisper and murmur ("Maybe Sita had sex with Ravana", "You can't sit for twenty whole minutes .... you gotta wash the car!", "Study the Gita? Can't ... I have work!"), causing the recently re-united energies to be .....
..... separated .... for reasons .... that are blatantly apparent to anyone ..... to be .... TOTALLY OUT OF CHARACTER AND UTTERLY INSANE.
Is it just possible, then -- that the aspiring yogi / yogini would suffer horribly --- despite their inherent divinity -- for having sacrificed their true and only Beloved, on the altar of the voices of the "world".
And maybe, their are illustrations within the illustration ....
Lady Sita is ultimately taken back into the Earth (symbolizing the embodiment and integration which result after enlightenment, _as_ full enlightenment, perhaps?) -- and re-united with ...... Her Own Highest Self (the Earth Goddess, Lakshmi --- who she already is, anyway!)
Thus showing us that it's not any mate who is our ultimate fulfillment - but our inner, highest Beloved - our true guru - our true Ishta Deva (or Devi) - our Highest Ideal ..... is our Self.
I don't even know if all my theoretical symbolism is on the mark here - I do *not* claim any sort of deep understanding of all the characters and symbols within the Sanatana Dharma (aka Hinduism), and/or the Ramayana.
My point is simply that there are many layers of important symbolism, here .... including, I imagine, Ram's rejection of Sita.
I literally did not "get" this, until today --- as a result of your post, and query, Shweta ----- so thank you, big time!!
I hope my comments have helped to return the favor, even a little.
And if anyone else has ideas, or (this would be really cool) knowledge - of the Ramayana's deeper symbolism --- please fill us in!
Peace & Namaste,
Kirtanman
PS ---- Please Note: I'm out the door for a Holiday Kirtan (Yay!) - and running late --- and thus, "no time to proofread" - so apologies for any blatant errors or non-sensical stuff, if such there be.